Journey to South Africa

Day Six: Mosaic Sanctuary

      It´s kind of funny how the accommodations I liked the best so far were where I felt the sickest. I haven´t really felt fatigue from my treatment on this trip, which is good, although Jon and I have taken our fair share of naps in Pepe´s car. However, I got the stomach bug of all stomach bugs during the first night I was at Mosaic. I couldn´t keep anything down.  The worst part was that I felt this horrible cramping in my stomach that would not stop and was very painful. All I could do was lay on the bed and moan.

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Where I spent the majority of my time at Mosaic
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View from the room

Jon and I were supposed to go to the nearby town of Gaansbaai that morning to do some shark cage diving. Who are we kidding… I never had any intentions of jumping in the cold ocean water and looking at a great white shark swimming around my cage with five other people. Hell no! I was firmly intending to stay on the boat the whole time and take pictures. So really only Jon was planning on diving with the sharks. Unfortunately since the wind has been so bad on the Western Cape a single shark hasn´t been sighted for the past 15 days. The passageway between the offshore seal colony and the coastline normally teems with Great Whites at this time of year. Due to the wind and rough seas, though, the sharks have gone somewhere else. So unfortunately, the company cancelled the shark dive. Probably for the better because there´s no way I could have gone on a boat that morning with rocky seas. But I know Jon was disappointed.

Luckily Mosaic Sanctuary is an all-inclusive lodge. They had two activities that day that we would probably have missed had we gone shark diving. I vowed that I would not miss either of these activities even though my stomach was killing me. I expelled all the nastiness I could and then took a few tablets of Immodium, probiotics, and Pepto Bismol pills. I hoped that would stabilize me so I could go on the morning excursion. The guide drove us in the bouncy safari jeep through the hills and up over some sand dunes to get us to our own private beach.

 

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Our own private beach just beyond the sand dunes

Once we climbed over the tallest sand dune I felt like I had exhausted every last bit of energy I had, so I simply lay down on the beach while Jon took off down the coast to photograph the bird life.

 

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A black oystercatcher- an endangered animal. Impressive balance!

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An oystercatcher flies close to his potential food source in the ocean

Unfortunately, the wind was so bad that the sand was whipping me in the face, mouth, legs, arms: everywhere! The wind and sand wouldn´t let up… and it hurt. I was ready to go back to the lodge and lay down. Before I could do that though, I had to find my husband who was nowhere in sight. The other guests were also ready to go. I took off walking along the coastline to try and find him. About twenty minutes later I spotted a faint outline of a person walking towards us. It was Jon of course. He had lost track of the time while taking photos.

Anyway, we eventually made it back to the lodge before I had to go to the bathroom. I skipped lunch because I was feeling really bad again and cramping. I lay on the comfortable bed with my hands on my abdomen in the hopes that I would feel better before the afternoon activity. Well I didn´t really feel better, but there was no way I was going to miss driving a Four Wheeler (called quad bikes here in South Africa) up and down the sandy hills around the lagoon. The guide drove us to the other lodge on the property that had a few self-serve cottages that families could stay in and look out at the beautiful scenery. Jon wanted to photograph the birds and I wanted to sit on a picnic bench in the shade and feel somewhat alive before I got on the 4×4.

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Pretending to feel alive

I had a few bites of a banana and was able to keep that down so I declared I was feeling well enough to do the four wheeling with the other guests. It was exhilarating! Zooming around the rocky terrain on a motorized vehicle was a thrill. Hills you truly didn´t think you could get up were yours if you simply held down the gas throttle hard enough.

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Lookin tough on my quad bike

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It got a little too bumpy for my stomach as we drove around on the potholed grass near the lake, but I willed myself to feel better since I was having so much fun. It was far better than shark diving, so we both agreed that it was a blessing in disguise that we missed the sharks and went quad biking instead.

The staff at Mosaic was so nice to me all day and kept asking how I was feeling while stocking our fridge with bottle after bottle of water and ginger ale.   I was able to eat a bit of dinner that night which is great, because it was absolutely delicious. We had a goat cheese and beet salad, as well as a beautifully cooked fillet with Madagascar pepper sauce and apple pie. After my few bites of dinner I headed back to our room to lie down some more and wait for my stomach to expel the delicious food. After it had done so, I took more Immodium pills and hoped I would feel better in the morning.

Journey to South Africa

Day Five: Our First Real Spotting of Wild Animals

So those of you who follow the blog are probably asking yourself, “I thought she said they were going on a safari. Where are all the pictures of animals?” Well, friends- they start now. See, Jon and I wanted our typical safari experience to be at the end of the trip. So some of the last things we are doing on our trip are going to two different game reserves, one on the Cape and one in Northeastern South Africa near Kruger National Park. We wanted to see the big game animals like lions, and elephants, and giraffes. And being in these two different climates will help us to see them better. Up until those game reserves though, we have been traveling along the Cape with Pepe, oohing and aahing over the amazing scenery of this area, and seeing smaller but still equally impressive animals on the way.

Today we headed back to the coast to check out Stoney Point, an alternative penguin colony to the over-touristed Boulder Beach, closer to Cape Town. Along the way we took this beautiful coastal road along False Bay called the Whale Coast. Unfortunately, it´s not whale season right now, so we didn´t see any of those marvelous creatures. Shame! But just as we were about to be very sad that we didn´t see a whale, we came upon a family of baboons, just hanging out at a pullout on the curve of the road. Baboons! In the wild! I could have watched the family all day I was so excited, so we pulled over for Jon to get some pictures.

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A male baboon walks on the road’s edge
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A baby baboon hangs onto the rock wall

Apparently baboons are quite common on the Cape and are extremely clever and can be very aggressive, jumping on the windshield, and even going so far as to open car doors and steal car keys. So Jon was instructed NOT to open the window and instead took his pictures from inside the glass. In this particular baboon troop there was a baby riding on its mom´s back, one climbing up a wooden sign, and one adolescent hanging out on the stone wall. What looked to be the father of the troop was sitting there daring anyone to invade his family´s private space.

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A mama and its baby stand up to the strong winds
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The baby climbs up the road sign

Suddenly we looked to our right and we saw another baboon dart across the road and inexplicably lie down in the middle of the road, licking the pavement. It was not a smart choice because he would NOT move from the road no matter how much we honked at him. Pepe and I decided we didn´t want to see the monkey get run over because he was laying just beyond a curve in the road and there wouldn´t be enough time for a car to see him and stop. We didn´t want to be witness to a disaster and so we continued onward and left the baboons behind.

When we reached the coast, however, we realized it was so windy that the waves were being blown AWAY from the coastline. It was also about fifteen degrees colder than inland, so we rushed back to the car to get our jackets after a few minutes of pretending our T-shirts were going to protect us from the wind.

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Showing you how windy it was at Stoney Point

 

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Cute penguin couple

We have seen penguins a few times in Chile, even taking a two-hour boat ride from Punto Arenas to Isla Magdalena to visit a penguin island. These penguins at Stony Point were a little different. Most of the members of the colony were molting, or shedding their fur before mating season. They want to look their best for attracting a mate, of course. But during the three weeks that the penguins are molting they cannot swim in the ocean because they are not well insulated from the cold water- there is too much space in between their feathers so they would freeze to death.

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Various stages of molting
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Lizard on the rocks near the penguins
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Penguin colony at Stoney Point. Notice how the winds are so strong they’re blowing away the waves from the coast
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Trying to look good for mating season

To make up for this, the penguins binge eat before they begin molting and become very large. During the three weeks that it takes them to become the black and white shiny creatures we associate with penguins they lose over half their body weight. Crazy! Anyway, Jon took some pictures while Pepe and I tried not to get blown over on the wooden walk way. I was amazed that the penguins were able to stay on the rocks the wind was so strong. The penguins were neat, but it was too windy to stay out there long.

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After the penguins we headed inland a bit to another wine valley called “Heaven and Earth” in English. I´m not even going to try to pronounce or spell the Afrikaan name for the valley… We had a delicious lunch at the winery, Creation, which had lovely grounds and gardens that we were able to look out on. We had an eight course tapas meal, meaning small dishes, each paired with a little bit of wine. The valley is new and known for its chardonnay and pinot noir. We loved both, especially the chardonnay. I wasn´t feeling so well after typing my blog during the windy car ride, so I didn´t really enjoy the white wine courses. I was also having a “texture sensitive day”, something that has plagued me a lot since my last treatment. When that happens, anything chewy or spongy or smelling strong makes me very nauseous. As a result, I had trouble with the fresh calamari, smoked salmon, and quiche dishes, and was not looking forward to five more courses that would make me feel sick. I normally really enjoy all parts of a wine tasting so this was unfortunate. Luckily my stomach pains magically disappeared and I was able to really enjoy the rest of the meal. Our favorite tapa was this duck meat (that looked like roast beef) served with beets and a raspberry goat cheese. It was absolutely divine and went very well with the pinot. Alright, well I´ll stop talking about the meal now as it was very decadent and I don´t want to sound like the food snob I am, but we really enjoyed the food and wine parings, as well as the presentation. We even bought a few bottles of wine to enjoy along the rest of the trip.

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We are enjoying lunch at Creation winery
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Flower at Creation
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Delicious Duck Meat Pairing
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Another flower at Creation

After lunch we headed just past the town of Hermanus to the edge of the lagoon there and to my favorite accommodations so far, Mosaic Sanctuary. Mosaic has six wood and stone huts hidden in the trees. A central lodge and swimming pool is set up for sitting, drinking at the bar, and eating. A plank walkway connects all the different pathways, as everyone has a lot of privacy. When we walked into our room I let out a squeal of delight because it was so beautiful. The bed was big and sumptuous, and at the foot of the bed the windows opened to a private porch and a gorgeous view of the lagoon and surrounding mountains. Jon and I quickly changed into our swimsuits and found the swimming pool, which had the same amazing view as the room. It was truly delightful. Everything at the lodge is all-inclusive and in the main room where the guests take their meals, everything is so nice and the service is impeccable.   They think of everything you could possibly need and do it all in such a way that you really do think it´s their pleasure to serve you. And their turndown service- wow! They even leave an inspiring quote on your pillow along with a sweet treat, let down all the mosquito netting around the bed, and create a romantic setting, complete with candle lights and a bottle of champagne. Impressive! Even the most critical of travelers would have nothing to complain about at Mosaic.

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Mosaic Sanctuary. Not a bad view from a pool, eh?

 

Journey to South Africa

Day Four: The Cape Winelands

Sadly, the next day we had to leave Cape Town. I could have stayed another week and still wanted to stay longer. There is so much to do there and the landscape is so beautiful. There was also a lot of shopping to do that we never got around to.  (Happy early anniversary, sweetie!)  Hopefully we can find some good shops later on the tour. Unfortunately we awoke to another day of the tablecloth cloud, so we didn´t get to go up Table Mountain, which is apparently a must see while in Cape Town. I was disappointed but didn´t dwell on it too much because today was a day of wine tasting in the towns of Paarl, Franschhoek, and Stellenbosch.

Jon and I love wine and we were happy to get to taste the difference between Chilean and South African wine. Our first stop was Fairview, a winery outside of Paarl known for its cheeses. They have a cute gimmick using goats as the label of the winery. Outside the winery they have a tower and three mountain goats, kind of like the llama pen outside Emiliana. They took the old lables of French wine and changed them to goat themed names such as Goats do Roam instead of Cotes du Rhone. I´m a sucker when companies put some thought into their marketing, so I was a fan.

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One of the goats at Fairview

When we got inside we were able to choose six different wines from their list. We were also allowed to take our wine over to the cheese display area and pig out on different cheeses like feta and fig, blue cheese, camembert, and brie. Both the wine and the cheese were good. My favorite was this really stinky, creamy goat cheese covered in ash. It tasted kind of like how goats smell. No one else liked it, but I sure did. For the sake of my marriage though, I decided not to buy it because it made my breath very stinky.

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Our guide, Pepe, and me at wine tasting

We drove on to the next winery in Franschhoek, separated by the Paarl Valley by a very tall coastal mountain range.   Franschhoek stands for French corner. French Huguenots fleeing religious persecution settled this area and discovered it was a great climate for growing wine, and I´m sure glad they did. In Franschoek we had a nice lunch at La Motte. They had a beautiful pond, river, and bridge leading to a luxurious tasting room. Jon kept calling it La Monet because the garden was so beautiful like Monet´s paintings.

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View of the Franschhoek Valley from above
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In the gardens of La Motte. The picture doesn’t do it justice
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I loved the chandeliers in the restaurant at La Motte
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Yummy meal of Springbok at La Motte

 

Wine tasting is always so fun and there were a TON of wineries that we passed along the way. Again, you could have spent weeks there. Our last stop of the day was at Delaire-Graff, a winery high on a hilltop with an amazing manicured garden at the entrance. The tasting room and restaurants were extremely opulent and the view down to the valley was unbeatable. I was a little put off by the winemaker´s desire to show off all his wealth in his winery. Who really needs a jewelry store full of diamonds at a winery? I guess diamond moguls do. I had the five course wine tasting all by myself so was a little tipsy which was fun. Jon´s yellow fever shot was kicking in that day so he wasn´t feeling so well. He was shivering and feverish. While I drank the wine, Pepe, Jon, and I got in a lengthy discussion about American politics and comparing the two countries´ governments. It was fun!

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View of the valley from Delaire-Graff
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Delaire-Graff Winery in Stellenbosch
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Looking out at the Helshoogte Valley from Delaire-Graff. (Don’t worry, I can’t pronounce these Afrikaans words either…)

After our last winery of the day we headed to our hotel, the Banhoek Lodge. Once we walked to our enormous room on the second floor surrounded by glass windows and the best view of the vineyards I wished we had finished wine tasting earlier and just enjoyed our room. The room had a wrap around porch to look out at the view and we could have had a bottle of wine there as the sun set. Oh well, it was an AMAZING location for a boutique hotel.

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The View out to the valley from our room in Banhoek Lodge. The wind was so crazy that night it blew the vase with the flower over and it shattered.
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View out the window from Banhoek Lodge. Not bad!

Pepe had made a reservation at a well-regarded restaurant in Stellenbosch for us for dinner called Terroire. We ate out on a patio and the sunset through the trees was magnificent. The food was good as well, although we waited a REALLY long time to get served again. Pepe asked when we wanted her to pick us up from the restaurant. She originally said 9:30. Considering it was only seven, we thought that was too long so we said 9:00. Well, when she arrived two hours later we were still eating our mains. Luckily my mushroom linguini was delicious and Jon´s kudu steak was cooked perfectly. We opted for no dessert since we were so full from all the food we´d eaten that day. It´s interesting to pre pay for all your meals, as we did when we booked the tour with Pepe. You can order whatever you want, and she pays the bill.  I don´t think we´ve been doing such a good job of maximizing the money we spend on food, but I will try to do more of that in the future.

Journey to South Africa

Day Three: Our Tour of the Cape Peninsula

Cape Town doesn´t occupy the southern most part of Africa. If you look on a map closely, there is a long, skinny peninsula leading from the city to the Cape of Good Hope. The peninsula has very scenic coastline and several cute little seaside towns like Camp´s Bay and Hout Bay. Pepe came to pick us up early in order to maybe squeeze in Table Top Mountain on the way to the peninsula. Unfortunately there was a giant cloud floating atop the mountain all day, making it impossible to go up there, and the wind was out of control. I wouldn´t fancy being suspended in a cable car being hit by those gusts! Cape Town, apparently, sometimes has winds, but every since we have been here, the wind gusts have been constant and up to 40 mph (just shy of hurricane status). The locals say this is not normal weather and that this amount of wind is unfortunate. The town of Hout Bay was being so pummeled by the wind, that the sand from the seashore had basically invaded the town. The city was covered in a sand cloud and small sand dunes had formed on the sidewalks and on the roads. Whoever named Chicago the windy city, apparently hasn´t visited Cape Town!

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The Tablecloth that prevented us from going up Table Mountain:-(
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Bo Kaap neighborhood on the way to Signal Hill. We wanted to take a Cape Malay cooking class here but didn’t have time

Anyway, despite the wind, the seaside villages were so picturesque that it made me want to move to Cape Town even more. Seriously, if there were a decent international school here, Jon and I would apply in a heartbeat. This area is so beautiful. Cape Town´s proximity to coastal mountains, vineyards, beautiful beaches, and unimaginable wildlife makes it a prime spot to live. The city has a very modern, cosmopolitan feel to it and the diversity of all the people is absolutely amazing, even though you can see remnants of the racial segregation, especially in all the different neighborhoods and communities. Pepe says that´s because people continue to live in the racially divided neighborhoods because that´s where their people and cultural connections are. The only difference is that it is no longer illegal to move and live wherever you can afford.

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The gorgeous town of Camp’s Bay. I want to live here some day. I guess I’ll keep dreaming…
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Cute seaside towns along the peninsula
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Seal in Hout Bay- they are kind of smelly though…
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Hout Bay- although you can’t tell how windy it is. Cool Cape Fur Seal on the pier though

Since Table Mountain was out of the questions, we drove up to Signal Hill, next to Table Top where the large cloud had not reached yet and we had an amazing bird´s eye view of the city. It was helpful to orient ourselves and I was glad we had Pepe to explain what all the different sections of the city were.

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View of Table Top from Signal Hill. With the fisheye

 

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Cape Town’s World Cup Stadium from atop Signal Hill

After braving the winds on Signal Hill we headed down the coast to check out the coastal towns and take pictures of the beautiful scenery. It was stunning, especially Chapman´s Peak, the road along the coast that is closed by the government whenever it rains badly due to the possibility of falling rocks.

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View of Hout Bay from Chapman’s Peak

When we reached the tip of the peninsula we encountered Cape of Good Hope Nature Reserve where, on a non-windy day, you can see baboons, zebras, and antelopes roaming the landscape. We were unlucky and saw none of these things, but the drive was very pleasant. We saw a lot of the plants and birds that we had enjoyed so much in Kirstenbosch Gardens. Pepe parked and we took the funicular up to the Cape Point lookout where we had a nice lunch at the Two Oceans restaurant. Pepe is a great conversationalist and we enjoy spending time with her. We found out her last names, Jones, is Welsh, which I should have figured out since many of my Welsh relatives have the same surname. Anyway, the winds were so strong up on the lookout that we were not allowed to sit on the restaurant´s patio because the wind had torn off the restaurant´s outdoor roof. The views were great, nonetheless, and I enjoyed the visit. It was interesting to hear the stories of the Portuguese explorers like Dias and de Gama and their various attempts to make it around the African continent and onwards to India.

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Cape Point- the southernmost tip of the peninsula that the explorers named the stormy point.
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Me and Jon at Cape of Good Hope. It was so windy that Jon had to hold down my wig to keep it from flying off

After lunch, we drove along the other side of the peninsula. We didn´t really stop too much at any of the coastal towns because the wind was so strong and we wanted to make it back in time to possibly go up Table Mountain. When we returned to the city, the entire mountain-top was socked in by heavy cloud cover. Locals call it the tablecloth, which I found pretty clever.  So instead Jon and I rested back at our waterfront hotel and went and did a little souvenir shopping. There were so many cool things to buy that I was a little overwhelmed. We decided on a few items, the prize piece being a carved Zulu headrest made of dark wood. It was a unique artifact that the Zulus actually used, so we were happy with our purchase.

For dinner I had requested South African food, so Andrew and Krystle picked us up on the waterfront and took us to a restaurant on Longstreet called Mama Africa. The restaurant was in a district of downtown where they have lots of restaurants, bars, and clubs. Mama Africa seemed fun since it offered live music. The band was really good, but so loud that my ears are still ringing. We couldn’t hear ourselves talk, so we had no choice to bop along with the band. The worst part was that we sat there for 30 minutes without any wait staff coming to check on us. The manager came over and apologized and told us she would personally be taking care of us for the rest of the night. Well, it was a full hour and fifty minutes before our main meals came. We´re used to slow service from Chile… but this was ridiculous. But we did get to experience some interesting African food. We order a chicken peanut stew from Zimbabwe as well as the Wild Game Platter, consisting of kebabs of crocodile, kudu, springbok, ostrich, venison sausage and wild boar. I didn´t think any of them tasted unlike beef, chicken, or pork- and I enjoyed them all. While chewing the crocodile meat I tried not to think of the animal it came from because that was the only one that really freaked me out. If you are looking for a fun night, experiencing some African music and cuisine, then I would recommend coming here. But you should definitely sit as far away from the band as you can. I am partially deaf in one ear from my last treatment, but now I think I´m partially deaf in the other ear also! Since we couldn´t hear each other in the restaurant we went to a bar afterwards and only had one drink… a much smarter decision than the other night, particularly since we had to finish packing and wake up early for Pepe to take us to the Cape Vineyards.

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Me, Jon, Krystle, and Andrew at Mama Africa
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From left to right: crocodile, springbock, ostrich. kudu, venison sausage, wild boar and a baked potato to wash it all down.

 

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My love bug and me at Camp’s Bay

Journey to South Africa

Day Two: Historical Cape Town

As previously stated, Jon and I woke up late on our second day in Cape Town, making sure that we could be happy and active tourists for at least half a day. We missed breakfast and instead went to the waterfront pub for a burger and some fish and chips. It was just what I needed to bring me back to health. We contemplated taking the cable car up Table Mountain since the winds weren´t too bad (at least not gale force as they had been pretty much the entire time we were in the city). However, we decided to wait for the winds to die down, and instead headed to the free walking tour of downtown.

We saw a lot of incredible historical sites and our guide did a really great job explaining recent South African history. The tour started in Green Market Square, a former trading market for fruits and vegetables that now serves as a souvenir market. We headed then to St. George´s Church where Desmond Tutu, a black preacher who was named archbishop of Cape Town by the all-white congregational leaders of the church. The church leaders didn´t believe in apartheid and appointed Tutu, a black man, in a position of power so that they could fight against apartheid through the messages in his sermon. To this day, Tutu still preaches in that church when he is not in hospital. We also visited the gardens planted in the middle of town by the Dutch East India Company, as well as the presidential palace and the Houses of Parliament.   South Africa actually has three seats of government: the executive capital is in Pretoria, the legislative branch in Cape Town, and the judicial in Bloemfontaine. The main capital is really Pretoria, but when Parliament is in session, the government officials travel to Cape Town and stay there for a few months.

Following the Houses of Parliament, we headed to City Hall, which was a very                     impressive building, modeled after the Houses of Parliament in London with the tower clock. Nelson Mandela gave his first speech after being freed on the steps of City Hall. Many people came to watch his speech, but most whites stayed away because they thought that Mandela´s freedom meant that they would soon experience reverse apartheid or an uprising of some sort. Miraculously, that never occurred, thanks to Mandela´s messages of forgiveness.

We ended our tour there in front of the Castle of Good Hope, the oldest Dutch building in the city. It wasn´t really what you would think of as a castle but it had a moat and gate and ramparts up high with cannons to protect the city. Jon and I didn´t spend much time there because I was busy trying to hold my hat onto my head.   Due to the wind we decided not to go up Table Mountain at all that day, but save it for the next day.

We headed back to the waterfront where Jon and I decided to split up to visit separate things. He headed to the Two Oceans Aquarium where he took amazing pictures of jellyfish, sharks, and other creatures that live under the water. I, instead, went to the traveling Titanic Artifact exhibit located next door in the Watershed. Being a little bit obsessed with the Titanic while growing up, I really enjoyed the exhibit. Upon entry they give you a replica ticket to the Titanic and on the back you are given an identity of a passenger, including their age, their reason for traveling, who they traveled with, etc. At the end of the exhibit you find out if your passenger survived or died. The kids really found that quite interesting, as did I. The exhibit was amazing: they had so much information about the ship, the different classes of passengers, the passengers themselves, and the survival stories from the sinking. They had artifacts that had been brought up from the ship such as porcelain dishes, hair ornaments, jewelry, postcards, etc. It was fascinating how those items were cleaned and cared for after their time spent on the bottom of the ocean. There was even an iceberg available for you to touch so that you could feel how cold the water was. And since icebergs are fresh water and salt water has a lower freezing temperature, the seawater that the passengers jumped into was even colder. It´s amazing that anyone survived at all: most people didn´t last even a few minutes in that freezing water. What I was most impressed with was how similar the actors in the Titanic movie looked like the actual historical characters pictured in the exhibit. It was a great experience, especially if you love the movie like I do!

For dinner, Jon and I headed to Willoughby and Co., which I had read we had to go to. It was a little different than I envisioned because it was inside a mall and there was basically no ambience. It was very crowded and lively though- Jon and I had to sit at the sushi bar because there was no space anywhere else. We had the Namibian oysters as recommended by my guide book but Jon didn´t really like them because they were too big, like Gulf Oysters. I liked them, but didn´t think they were all that special. What the restaurant is really good at is their sushi. The rolls were creative and the fish very fresh, even though the pieces were almost too large to put in your mouth. Overall, though- a tasty meal and we were happy to catch up on a little sleep afterwards.

 

*I tried to upload photos but our lodge’s internet is very slow.  Hopefully it will be faster the next place and you can get visuals to go with the writing

Journey to South Africa: Day One in CapeTown

Kirstenbosch Gardens and Robben Island

We slept in a little on our first day in Cape Town. My stomach, which never really feels great, was particularly rocky this morning. It would only calm down after three Pepto Bismol pills, which is extreme- even for me. But I was not going to let my stomach prevent me from enjoying my day, especially since we had to give up a half day in Cape Town yesterday due to the delayed flight.

The first thing Jon and I did was walk down to the clock tower on the waterfront in order to secure tickets to Robben Island. We were luckily able to get on the 3:00 tour that afternoon. Sometimes, during peak tourist season, the tickets are all sold out and you have to buy them several days in advance. We had some time on our hands before the tour and so we decided to spend it visiting Kirstenbosch Gardens. The gardens, a must-see while in Cape Town, are located on the eastern slope of Table Mountain. The gardens were founded in 1913 to preserve South African plant life and are currently a World Heritage Site. Once we disappeared around the side of the mountain in our taxi, the scenery began to change. Although we were very close to the city center, the mountain separating the two zones allow the gardens to be isolated from humanity and give visitors the sense that they are alone in nature. In fact, although Cape Town is quite large it feels small because the mountains separate all the different areas of the city into seemingly isolated neighborhoods.

 

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Walkway to Enter the Gardens
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Tree Canopy Walk
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Erica Flower
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Proteas Flower

Kirstenbosch Gardens cover quite a large area and have lots of really neat things to visit. We really enjoyed the Tree Canopy walk, as well as the sculpture garden. They even have a part of the gardens that has statues of dinosaurs amid the types of plant life that would have existed in that era. Kirstenbosch is on a hill, so we had to climb quite high to see some of the over 6000 native plants and birds, of which Proteas bushes, silver trees, and Erica flowers are the most numerous.  We also stopped to photograph the large ibises and sugar birds that had really long scissor like tails that stood out as they hopped from bush to bush. As we continued to climb closer towards the mountain and away from the others at the gardens, I became quite overwhelmed with emotion. The sun was shining, the view of the city down below us, the fragrances from the flowers and the peacefulness all culminated in me breaking down sobbing for absolutely no reason. “What if I had never made it here?” I asked my husband who was incredulous as to why I was suddenly crying in the middle of all that beauty. He simply rubbed my back and told me “No more tears are necessary”, and luckily I snapped out of my state quickly.

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Near where I had my emotional breakdown

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Sugar Bird!
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Cute family of ducks
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Stunning scenery
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Neat flower
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Me and Jon at Kirstenbosch. We loved it!

We left the gardens and headed back to the Waterfront where we grabbed a quick lunch at one of the many cafes and then headed to board the ferry to Robben Island. Robben Island is famous for being the island prison that housed Nelson Mandela for over 18 years. The ferry ride over is about thirty minutes long and can be quite rough when the waves are choppy, as we discovered on the way home. Before Jon and I came to South Africa we watched a lot of movies like “Power of One”, “Cry Freedom”, and “Goodbye Bufana” and read a few books about apartheid such as “Kaffir Boy” so we would know more about the country´s history and be more informed before we saw all of these incredibly important sights. From 1947-1994, the white Afrikaaner government, who had created the system of racial classification known as apartheid, arrested all political prisoners and sent them to Robben Island so they couldn´t lead the people in an uprising against the government.   Robben Island was the definition of an island prison. The tour consisted of us boarding old, white busses and being toured around the island visiting important sights like the church where they buried all the victims when the island was used as a leper colony. We also visited the limestone quarry where Mandela and other prisoners were forced to work. We tourists were not allowed to walk freely around the island so the only downside was being crammed in that bus, where it was difficult to take pictures.

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Victoria and Alfred Waterfront
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View of the waterfront from the ferry
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View back to Cape Town from the ferry

When we reached the prison barracks we were allowed to get off the buses and were met by tour guides who were former political prisoners at Robben Island. This, for me, was the most interesting, because we got a very personal experience of what it would have been like to be imprisoned there, most of the time on trumped up, ridiculous charges. The conditions were not good, of course, but the prisoners (except for the leaders like Mandela) were allowed to interact with each other during football matches. It was a very humbling experience to be there and hear the stories. After we made the obligatory stop to peer into Mandela´s cell, I found it hard to believe that such a man could have encouraged a spirit of forgiveness in South Africa after how he had been treated for so many years.

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Table Mountain from Robben Island
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African Penguins
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Choppy waters and the view back to Cape Town

 

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Making sure the prisoners don´t escape
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Our tour guide: a political prisoner from 1984-1992.
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Prison Barracks on the island
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Our guide opens the gate to the leadership barracks where Mandela was held
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A sneak peak into Mandela´s cell : where he lived for 18 years

The ferry ride back was… a little rough. Nothing like our experience on the boat to Providencia Island, but it was still very rocky. Jon and I had originally chosen to sit on the top of the boat to get photos of Cape Town from the sea. However, as the boat was leaving, one of the attendants seemed quite serious when he said, “If you stay up here you WILL get wet and regret it. There was weather up ahead,” he said. So Jon and I quickly made our way back downstairs but many people chose to stay up on the top deck. Bad decision! The waves were so rough that the captain blasted some Bob Marley and Queen so that we wouldn´t hear the boat slamming into the waves and be distracted from the subsequent spray that covered the entire boat. In fact, the ship attendants instead held a dance off in the aisles to keep our mind off the journey. It was a great atmosphere: I love South Africans. They are so friendly and so fun! Such a change from Santiago where we are never greeted while a smile from a stranger.

That night we had dinner at the waterfront again, this time with Krystle and Andrew. Krystle was Jon´s teaching partner for 2 years at Nido and moved here to be with her boyfriend. We had a great night with them. The food (an unusual combination of Indian and Chinese) was delicious and the wine went down smoothly. So smoothly, in fact, that we decided to go to a bar afterward and drink more. A not so smart decision since we didn´t get up the next morning till around 11:00. But it was worth it since Jon and I had a ton of fun and we don´t really ever go out anymore. Plus we slept enough the next morning in order to enjoy the rest of our day in Cape Town.

 

Journey to South Africa: Preface and Arrival

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When I was re-diagnosed in June with metastasis in my brain, I quickly wrote up my travel bucket list. Number one on the list was an African safari, so when I found out in October that my treatment worked and that I was healthy, Jon asked me where I wanted to go most in the world. A safari in South Africa with a tour guide who specializes in photo travel was soon planned. Pepe Jones, the owner of Nature UnCut, sent us a proposed itinerary that looked so amazing that I cried from joy when I received it. We were going to spend three weeks travelling through Cape Town, the Eastern Cape, the Garden Route, a game park near Port Elizabeth, Jo-burg, and Sabi Sabi ( a world renowned safari destination outside Kruger National Park).   The list of exotic animals that we might see was absolutely amazing: I decided I was one lucky girl to have such a patient and loving husband willing to spend a lot of money to make my travel dreams come true. And who are we kidding? He really wanted to go too!

On the morning of January 9th the two of us boarded an airplane to South Africa, loaded down with safari clothes and all of Jon´s new camera equipment that he got for Christmas. Hopefully the pictures that I plan to post each day on this blog will be proof that the camera upgrades were worth it. Our first flight to Sao Paolo was rather uneventful. Unfortunately, when we arrived we were informed that in addition to our already planned four-hour layover, our plane from Jo-burg was delayed five hours. South African Airways put us up in the airport hotel so we could rest for a few hours instead of trying to sleep on the hard chairs in the terminal.   When we eventually boarded our flight, it was really late at night and we were so delayed that there was no way we were going to make our connection to Cape Town. We also had to take a bus to the giant jumbo jet as there were no places left for it to park. We had to walk under the wings and it was then that I realized how huge the aircraft was. I also did not enjoy walking up the enormously tall stairway to board the plane. Unfortunately, there was no space in the emergency exit aisle so Jon folded his mile long legs into the tiny Economy middle row for the nine-hour journey. I would imagine he was very uncomfortable. We encountered a TON of turbulence for the first few hours leaving Brazil which, as those who read this blog know, is NOT my favorite. It caused me to drug myself with Melatonin pills and two glasses of white wine. It must have worked, because I actually slept a few hours. Finding a new flight to Cape Town wasn´t a problem because flights between the two cities go every hour so we got on our new plane and I managed to sleep on that flight also. We arrived in Cape Town around 6:15 during that magical time when the coastal mountains were bathed in that pre-sunset glow. Pepe met us at the airport and she turned out to be young and very friendly, so we were both excited since we were going to be spending a considerable amount of time with her.

Our hotel is located on the Victoria and Alfred Waterfront and is very nice. The rooms are big and comfortable and we are so near to all the restaurants and shopping that the city has to offer. We have a concert of African musicians outside our window every afternoon and evening as they play to the tourists. After freshening up a little and unpacking after our 33 hours of travel we headed out to the waterfront and found a Lebanese restaurant, which was very tasty. The surprise belly dancing made for an interesting meal. It´s hard to concentrate on falafel when you have a body gyrating in your face.   After our hummus, we braved the wind and decided the blustery image on my phone´s weather app was pretty accurate. The wind gusts here sometimes get up to 30 mph. I don´t know how anyone rides the Cape wheel We slept well. I had finally arrived in Africa, the last continent (besides Antarctica) for my footsteps to darken.

Returning to Normal Life

I remember a few years ago that when Friday afternoon rolled around, I used to be excited for the weekend, for the freedom and fun it promised. At my first job someone used to come into the office and do a Friday dance to get us all in the right frame of mind. I couldn’t wait to find a Happy Hour while kicking back and forgetting about the workweek. This past month I have returned to work, so I have also been excited about Fridays, but for other reasons… I get to lie on the couch then crawl into bed and sleep as much as I want. That’s right, folks: Eli, former queen of the nightlife, has gotten old. Now, a fun Friday night for me consists of a meal that I don’t have to cook and possibly a movie, if it is entertaining enough to keep my eyes from resting against their lids. All you parents out there are probably thinking, “Welcome to my world…” but I definitely get it. Kids are tiring. Work is tiring. Life is tiring. I looked at myself in the reflection of the computer screen last Friday afternoon, after the last school bell rang, and all I could think about was how exhausted I looked and felt.

Since learning that my treatment worked, I’ve been back in the saddle, busy as always. At first I had some trouble doing the things that other human beings do, like hitting the alarm button, getting ready for the day, grocery shopping, attending meetings, taking the dogs for their walk, cooking dinner, and planning and attending social events. On the one hand I enjoyed doing things again, teaching my 6th graders, and going through the daily motions like everyone else around me. I liked being part of the real world again. However, I was also exhausted, both mentally and physically: I wasn’t sure I could rejoin the world as it all seemed so mundane and unimportant compared to the life and death struggle I was faced with five months ago. But I managed to leave all that emotional baggage under lock and key and get back to the business of living my “normal life” again.

When I was newly diagnosed and had just finished my whole brain radiation treatment I read a collection of short stories about American marines in Iraq called “Redeployment” by Phil Klay. Oftentimes, war metaphors are used to describe the struggles that a cancer patient goes through. Patients are often encouraged by phrases like “keep fighting” and “win the battle” against cancer. Of course there were very obvious differences between me and the Marines; I have never been fully dressed in camo in an extremely hot desert, wondering if the next person that passes is going to try to harm me. I have never killed someone and then had to deal with the consequences. However, despite the many differences I was surprised at how many of my own feelings mirrored those of the soldiers in the book. Both soldiers and cancer patients live with a tremendous amount of fear and thoughts of death. At once, I began highlighting sentences and adding personal notes and connections to the stories on my Nook.

I think the most striking similarity between the two groups is how hard it is to reenter normal life. No one, especially spouses and children, understand what the soldiers returning from war went through. It becomes essential for the soldiers to stop thinking about what happened “over there”, even though they may feel guilty about their actions or traumatized by what they saw. In order to remain sane, they can’t think about their life during war, or else risk lashing out at loved ones or simply breaking down entirely. The only thing they can do, is try to go back to being the person they were before the event. That sentiment I can definitely understand because I’ve struggled with it. It is almost impossible to return to the person you once were, especially if you’ve been changed physically or mentally.

Luckily as I got more comfortable with the routines of normal life, I was able to put cancer on the backburner. Instead I spent my time trying to be a good teacher and answering the interesting questions that 11 and 12 year olds often come up with on a daily basis. Every day that I didn’t have to lie down and give in to my fatigue was a good day for me. You see, when I was diagnosed for the second time I really did think I was going to die, and I was ready for that. I expected to steadily get weaker and sicker until I just faded away. I never expected to go back to school. Instead, I envisioned a future for me and my loved ones that was full of pain and suffering. Right now, I’m teaching about Buddhism, and Siddhartha (the Buddha) realized this too, when he left his palace walls and saw aging, sickness, and death for the first time. And it’s true, there are a LOT of sad and unpleasant things in the world that can consume you. Every time I turn on my BBC news app I expect to read about something depressing.

After the Paris attacks I read a few stories of the survivors and relatives who lost people in the tragedy. Many claimed that, “You never know how strong you can be until you are forced to deal with something terrible”. This is extremely true. Before having cancer I really didn’t think of myself as a strong person. I wasn’t the best wife, daughter, friend, or sister. I definitely made many mistakes and I made bad choices. However, it has taken two bouts with cancer to help me realize that being liked and being perceived as successful, is not what’s most important in life.

Last night I watched a documentary called “Happy” with some friends, which helped me piece together all the thoughts that have been going on in my head the last few weeks. And what it comes down to is that your level of happiness in life is up to you. It’s okay to get sad when tragedy strikes, but it’s also important to enjoy everything around you, even the small things. I appreciate the sun shining on my face. I enjoy laughing, because I haven’t done a lot of that over the past few years. I appreciate taking walks in Parque Bicentenario, while Jon and I watch Kubi and Chingy sprint from bird nest to rabbit hole. I love seeing them run through the orange poppies of the park’s hills. In the late afternoon warmth, this is often the best part of my day.

I’ve also realized that my family and friends are the most important things to cherish. No matter what’s going on in your life, if you have these people and spend as much time with them as possible, then you really have no excuse but to be happy. Next time I blow up about something small and stupid I’m sure Jon will throw all this back in my face, but… in my defense, it’s hard to be happy all the time and people aren’t perfect. I like to complain as much as anyone else and scream and cry about the unfairness of it all, however that doesn’t really get you anywhere. So, since I don’t have any other choice, I’m going to do my best to enjoy my normal life and be as happy as possible. Here in Santiago, we only have four more weeks till summer break and Christmas with my family back in Houston and then on the beach in Mexico with Jon’s family. Then my wonderful husband and I are going on the trip of a lifetime: a three-week safari in South Africa. I can’t wait… so many happy times to come.

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The pictures above are from an event I helped organized called One Mic Stand.  It’s a benefit concert that the teachers put on every year.  I sang, danced, and even rapped with my group, Divalicious.  We were also able to grant a wish to a lovely 11 year old girl named Kamilla, who played her new electric keyboard and sang a Violetta song in Spanish, accompanied by one of our students.  It was a wonderful and happy moment for me, even though it definitely brought me tears.

Pressing the “Restart” Button

So I guess I haven’t written since my good news, like I promised. But since Oct 1st I’ve really just been emotionally numb. I think they call that shock. Writing was not really in the cards because I need to process my feelings before I type them, and I didn’t want to deal with my feelings at all. I, of course, celebrated with my friends here and then I hopped on a plane to see my family in the states. We didn’t discuss cancer much during my trip home aside from some celebratory hugs and drinks, and that was really what I needed the most: a break from the mental strain of dealing with cancer and waiting for news. I’m sure that’s what my family and friends needed also.

When you are told that you might only have three months to live, it’s like pressing the “Stop” button on regular life. After crying out all your tears, you immediately put up all these barriers: “Don’t think about death”; “do this hideous treatment to get better”; “take these pills that are going to make you feel terrible and gain weight”; “live in the moment”; “be your best self”; “don’t lose your shit”…. It is like living in an alternate reality where you do your best to cope with the situation but feel completely detached from the life everyone else is leading. For the last three months I felt like I was watching someone else go through the motions of showering, eating, walking the dogs, etc. Even the fun events that I used to get excited about seemed to be happening to a different person. Thoughts involving sadness and death crossed my mind pretty much every day. Tomorrow was all the future I could anticipate with certainty.

The trip home was just what I needed to help me feel like myself again. I love my life here in Chile, but I have a lot of bad memories of this place. So to fly fourteen hours and get away from it all was the best remedy. Although I probably already knew this, there’s nothing like family to bring you back to your roots. I laughed like a teenager with my sister, had dinner at my parent’s dining table with my uncle and grandmother, ate a LOT of American food and gained several pounds.   (Burgers, Tex-Mex, buffalo wings, eggs benedict… all are delicious, but definitely not good for the figure.) Although I’ve moved far away from my family, I hope they know how important they are to me.

The highlight of the visit was participating in the Making Strides Against Breast Cancer walk in Portland with my sister and friends from that area. My friend, Chris Fender, lives in Portland and now has two kids whom I had not met. It was fun seeing them and watching first-hand how great Fendi is as a dad. In addition, Fender had prepared a surprise visit from Chris Taylor, another good friend of mine from college. Someone from Claremont thought it would be really funny to room the two football-playing “Chris”es together freshman year. So they will always be Taylor and Fender to me. Anyway, the surprise visit was pretty awesome and, since it was completely unexpected, made me cry. As did the moment before the walk when the announcer stood on stage and had all the survivors come forward for a picture. I hugged my sister for a long time and sobbed my eyes out for the first time since I learned the news. It felt so surreal to be a two- time survivor of breast cancer, against all the odds. It felt weird to be getting T-shirts and medals and prizes just because I had survived cancer again, but it also made me realize what a momentous achievement it was. I know Ali felt the same way and probably was crying out of relief for her sissy, and also worry for her own health, since most breast cancers are genetic.

Before I left for the states, my husband was talking to a woman who said, “Well at least your wife has breast cancer, which really isn’t all that bad.” I’m not sure where she got that idea.   Jon was irate and quickly ended his conversation with her. It is true that many women can survive breast cancer if they succeed in detecting it early through self-exams and mammograms. However, according to Breast Cancer.org “about 40,290 women in the U.S. are expected to die in 2015 from breast cancer…” That’s a lot of mothers and daughters and grandmothers leaving behind families and loved ones every year. I feel like a lot of people think breast cancer isn’t so serious because of all the cutesy pink events and slogans that make it seem like a fun, girly thing to be involved in. I know, growing up, that I sometimes thought that way. But, make no mistake, breast cancer is a deadly disease. The pink ribbons and runners dressed in pink tutus, boas and wigs are just a way for cancer survivors to have a little fun with it and not take it so seriously. For family members and friends, these events are a way to honor people who struggle with the disease or have lost their lives to it. Either way, I am grateful to have so many people who have supported me along this journey. A huge shout out goes to my sister who organized Team Eli Oregon. My sissy is truly tremendous.

I am back in Chile now and it has been a hard transition. I know I need to go back to work and resume my normal life, because, I am healthy once again.   All of those temporary walls that I put up to cope with my situation need to come down again. I am having a hard time doing that, however, because I think of how disappointed Jon and I will be when we have to pause our normal lives again and go back to living this weird, cancer existence. But, I can’t think about that. For now I’m looking forward to having more time to see friends and family, and experience amazing travel with Jon. (It would also be great to see my head with hair on it once again!) And so, even though I have a lot of apprehensions about it, I’m going to go ahead and push the “Restart” button on my life, think about the future, become Ms. Timms again, and get back in the classroom. Wish me luck!

Me and my parents in Brazos Bend State Park
Me and my parents in Brazos Bend State Park
Me, Fender, Taylor, and Ronan
Me, Fender, Taylor, and Ronan
Me and my sissy:-)
Me and my sissy:-)

Time to Pop Open the Champagne

This will be a brief blog post, but I wanted to let everyone know that the news from the MRI, that I luckily had later in the day on Monday, was good.  The lesions have shrunk in size and are much less numerous.  They are not producing anymore enema so I have no more brain swelling.  The lesions are no longer cancerous and my doctor says they will turn to scars like the lesions in my bone.  I am exhausted, relieved, and ready to celebrate.  I will write more tomorrow, but I wanted to let everyone know.  THANK YOU TEAM ELI!!!

Celebrating the good news!!
Celebrating the good news!!